Opening Day: January 28, 2026

The Intimacy Nerds Community

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What to Expect

The Intimacy Nerds Community is your safe space to connect with like-minded self-healers. Engage with fellow intersectional folx who are cultivating their relationships — and the world — to be safer, healthier, and happier.

❋ Connection & Solidarity

Our community emphasizes collective reflection, interaction, and celebration. Rather than disappearing into the crowd, you can form meaningful connections and share support with a network of allies.

❋ Compassion & Accountability

Our program’s intersectional approach is based upon understanding your unique needs, integrating neurodivergent- and trauma-informed strategies, and empowering you to take action toward your goals.

❋ Fun & Feasibility

We blend gamified, creative activities and high-impact learning materials to reward you for practicing new skills. Our curriculum shifts away from burnout culture and toward sustainable self-care.

You’re not “too broken” to be in healthy, fulfilling relationships, you just need more support.

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Free Membership

Ally

This is our most accessible level of community. Gain access to an online “village” of folx who are venturing to heal their trauma and their relationships, and the resources to begin your journey.

What’s Included:

  • The Healer’s Journey: Backstory, our free mini eCourse that prepares new members for the complete Healer’s Journey eCourse (available within all paid tiers)

  • Engaging community spaces that feature discussion prompts, activities, challenges, and other opportunities to connect and grow

  • A convenient resource library of podcast episodes, blog posts, and bonus materials

  • Early registration opportunities for future workshops and events

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Tier One

Adventurer

This affordable community level is for those who are ready to commit deeply to their own emotional wellbeing as well as healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

What’s Included:

  • Everything within the Ally membership

  • The Healer’s Journey eCourse (new content uploaded monthly)

  • Exclusive monthly workshops for learning, connecting, and receiving personalized guidance

  • Specialized member spaces so that you can grow alongside those overcoming similar challenges

  • Access to the expanded resource library and bonus content

  • Ability to vote on future podcast episodes and workshops

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Tier Two

Pathfinder

This level facilitates a “small group” experience for those who want more intensive support opportunities.

What’s Included:

  • Everything in the previous community levels

  • Seasonal (three-month) Journeys to deepen and accelerate your growth and healing

  • Two small group meetings (a “Warm-Up” in Month 1 and a “Wrap-Up” in Month 3)

  • In-depth 5-week programs with weekly workshops and activities (in Month 2)

  • Dedicated cohort space where you can bond with fellow Pathfinders and engage in expert Q&As

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Tier Three

Luminary

This is an adaptive, 6-month program that can be personalized for individuals, couples, and polycules. We designed this level for members who are ready to initiate radical positive change in their lives and relationships.

What’s Included:

  • Everything in the previous community levels

  • Two individual and/or partner sessions per month (with the possibility of bonus sessions)

    • This entails a blend of therapy, coaching, and integrated therapy & coaching sessions

  • 24/7 VIP support access for asking questions and receiving guidance from the experts

  • Personalized activities and bonus resources

Begin Your Journey

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