Opening Day: March 29, 2026

The Intimacy Nerds Community

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What to Expect

The Intimacy Nerds Community is your safe space to connect with like-minded self-healers. Engage with fellow intersectional folx who are cultivating their relationships — and the world — to be safer, healthier, and happier.

❋ Connection & Solidarity

Our community emphasizes collective reflection, interaction, and celebration. Rather than disappearing into the crowd, you can form meaningful connections and share support with a network of allies.

❋ Compassion & Accountability

Our program’s intersectional approach is based upon understanding your unique needs, integrating neurodivergent- and trauma-informed strategies, and empowering you to take action toward your goals.

❋ Fun & Feasibility

We blend gamified, creative activities and high-impact learning materials to reward you for practicing new skills. Our curriculum shifts away from burnout culture and toward sustainable self-care.

You’re not “too broken” to be in healthy, fulfilling relationships, you just need more support.

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Free Membership

Ally

This is our most accessible level of community. Gain access to an online “village” of folx who are venturing to heal their trauma and their relationships, and the resources to begin your journey.

What’s Included:

  • The Healer’s Journey: Backstory, our free mini eCourse that prepares new members for the complete Healer’s Journey eCourse (available within all paid tiers)

  • Engaging community spaces that feature discussion prompts, activities, challenges, and other opportunities to connect and grow

  • A convenient resource library of podcast episodes, blog posts, and bonus materials

  • Early registration opportunities and discounts for live events

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Tier One

Adventurer

This affordable community level is for those who are ready to commit deeply to their own emotional wellbeing as well as healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

What’s Included:

  • Everything within the Ally membership

  • The Healer’s Journey eCourse

  • Exclusive monthly workshops

  • Specialized member spaces so that you can grow alongside those overcoming similar challenges

  • Access to the expanded resource library

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Tier Two

Pathfinder

This level features cohorts of 15 members or less. It emphasizes deeper connections and intensive support.

What’s Included:

  • Everything in the previous community levels

  • Exclusive monthly roundtable discussions for personalized support and peer bonding

  • Dedicated cohort spaces with customized resources and bonus challenges

  • Ability to vote on future content and events

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Tier Three

Luminary

This level is only open to 8 members at a time. It’s designed to initiate radical positive change.

What’s Included:

  • Everything in the previous community levels

  • Twice monthly small group meetups

  • 24/7 VIP support access for asking questions and receiving guidance

  • A monthly 1:1 session (either therapy or coaching)

Begin Your Journey

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