Community-Based
Sex Therapy & Relationship Coaching
Trauma-Informed, Intersectional, & Inclusive
Intimacy Nerds is operated by and for kink-friendly, poly-friendly QTBIPOC and allies.
We help intersectional & neurodivergent folx overcome barriers to emotional intimacy so they can connect deeply with those they love.
Colonial capitalism is disabling.
Come co-create a culture that empowers you.
We are the only relationship experts blending therapeutic modalities and decolonized coaching, specifically for and with the intersectional & neurodivergent community.
Experience how we cultivate a supportive, trauma-informed space for collective learning and connection.
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Through integrative, trauma-informed treatment and community connection, we’re helping intersectional neurodivergent folx heal relational trauma so they can sustain authentic, joyful relationships.
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We are decolonizing mental healthcare by returning to a community model of healing. We aim to remedy widespread loneliness and burnout, ending culturally normalized patterns of trauma, by cultivating networks of collective support.
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Authenticity
Connection
Joy
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Leveraging therapeutic training and examined life experience, we systematically treat personal and interpersonal challenges. We uplift our clients with empathy and celebration, making growth feasible and affirming.
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We welcome compassionate self-healers, heart-led activists, and intersectional folx who are motivated to embody their healthiest selves.
If you’re tired of hiding your true self, sacrificing your joy, and falling victim to self-sabotage, we are here for you.
Accessing the support you need is the difference between staying stuck and changing your life.
No more rainbow capitalism.
Join a community where your identity isn’t an afterthought, it’s central.
Our method is grounded in…
2. Inner Child Re-Parenting
Cutting through identity loss, confusion, and masking, we help you reconnect with what brings you authentic joy and fulfillment. Healing isn’t always working harder. It’s also resting and having more fun. This informs how we integrate creativity, gamification, and celebrations to help you reclaim yourself.
You are not an island, and your relationship healing journey gets to reflect that.
3. Healthy Connections
We believe that individual treatment is most effective when we also treat loved ones and the wider community. Our method immerses you in an environment of collective reflection, accountability, and encouragement. This helps you to nurture healthier emotional intimacy, within and beyond romance.
4. Re-Culturing
Since 2020, US society has been increasingly isolating, and the sociopolitical landscape has created (and worsened) dire circumstances for millions of marginalized folx. Our clients know that they need a village, community mobilization, and healthier social systems. That’s why we’re collaborating with you to bring that vision to life.
1. Trauma Recovery
Using psychoeducation and guided skill-building, we address the systemic and relational traumas that accompany intersectionality and neurodivergence. We also treat childhood, sexual, and partner trauma so you can develop secure attachment and freedom from harmful patterns.
